Have you lost it or found it???

What have a lost and found…..my voice!

Being part of a small local community was a blessing to me and my family, but unfortunately I found out how hurtful and difficult that same community would be, if I was completely honest about myself within that community.

My family started finally attending a local church and within a few months my husband and our daughter was saved and baptized. Then a few months later the church split. Wow, talk about major changes all in less than two years.

Within the course of a little over six years in the new church we had watched issue after issue come about among members and leaders. Everyone had their own stories, but so many, including myself didn’t feel comfortable enough to tell all and be transparent within the congregation.

Oh I wanted to tell all, I wanted people to understand why emotions were all over the place, why I had a hard time being comfortable and trusting people. I would make the decision that I was going to tell a friend what I was withholding, but every time I came to the most pivotal moment, or would ask for accountability partners, nobody wanted to listen or take on the obligation. So I just decided I didn’t want to hurt anyone else by being too honest, or by being too much trouble for anyone, therefore, I would just stay to myself. Speak when I saw the people and be nice, but just not expect anything from anyone. Then when the truth finally all came out, it hurt several people and we were basically ask to leave the church a few years ago. To this point, we have heard from a total of six families within the community and some of that was at the passing of my mother.

As a member of the launch team for Jo Ann Fore’s book “When a Woman Finds Her Voice, Overcoming Your Life Hurts and Using Your Voice to Make a Difference.” God placed in my life the following quote “When we stifle the need for connection, we sacrifice a healing intimacy and companionship, forfeiting the opportunity to unfold that which cannot be discovered in solitude.”

I completely agree with the quote, I could never imagine going through any part of life without someone to talk to, someone that can understand what it is like to be a woman, wife, mother, business owner, servant, sibling, caregiver and the many other hats we wear. We do not need a large community to help us find our voice and heal from all of our wounds. We just need to know God will bless us with the community He knows we need and wants us to have.

“There is nothing that replaces the open-hearted power of a live, intimate conversation with a trusted friend.” – Jo Ann Fore, “When a Woman Finds Her Voice, Overcoming Your Life Hurts and Using Your Voice to Make a Difference.”

Many of us have signed the Pledge agreeing to finding our voices and using it to help others. Please click on the link and come join us. Link to Pledge: http://joannfore.com/take-the-pledge/

To purchase an advanced copy of Jo Ann’s book, click the link below. Then on release date it will be shipped right out to you:
Link to book: http://www.amazon.com/When-Woman-Finds-Her-Voice/dp/0891123873

You can read more over at Jo Ann’s blog, Find Your Voice Make a Difference, just click the picture!

Jo Ann Fore

4 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Tina Evans
    Sep 27, 2013 @ 14:50:26

    What a beautiful post my friend. So thankful God has brought you here, to this group. Hugs.


    • My Cup of Grace
      Oct 12, 2013 @ 23:18:00

      Thank you so much Tina, I’m sorry I am just getting back to you. For some reason I didn’t receive any notice there were responses and I’m still fighting myself to get into a regular habit of blogging.

      I’m so happy to be a part of this launch team and doing life with all of you! It is so much easier doing it as a “village” than trying to go it alone. 🙂


  2. Michelle@talesfromthefrontpew
    Sep 28, 2013 @ 06:01:43

    I’m sorry for the unfortunate happenings within your church. It is amazing how conniving Satan can be when God is doing really big things. Thank you for sharing your heart. I am happy to be on this journey with you. I pray God does big healing and big things to overpower satan’s plan.


    • My Cup of Grace
      Oct 12, 2013 @ 23:20:27

      Thank you Michelle, I love being on this journey with all the ladies, life is way too hard to do it alone.

      I am sorry I didn’t get back with you quicker but I haven’t put myself in the habit of blogging regularly as hard as I have tried and I didn’t receive any notifications of your reply.


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